Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Can I See Some I.D.?

I am, by far, the oldest person in my Second City improv class.  I honestly don't mind.  Age doesn't come into consideration much when you're playing theater games. (Plus, the teacher was older than me, so it was ok)

Then last week it happened.  We were debating where to hangout after class and as I packed my bag, the rest of the group began talking quietly amongst themselves. The result? 

"We'll need to find a restaurant - not everyone is 21."

Uh.... what?

Not only is "not everyone" under age, half the class needs fake ID's. 

I said how we can still go to the pub across the street as planned - they do have food. In their eyes I saw fear. I was that adult their parents had warned them about.  The person who would corrupt their teetotaling ways and lure them into the world of corruption and day-drinking. The young ones were terrified.

I quickly recovered by suggesting other restaurants on Wells St. and we were off with no permanent harm done.

But ohmygod... I knew these kids were college age, but it never occurred to me they'd yet to hit one of adulthood's milestones. One even has their twenty-first birthday this week!

I firmly believe that diversity makes us stronger,  so we continue to bond over our commonalities and inform each other on our differences.  I told them what microfiche was after it was suggested in class and in turn, I'm part of a 'group text' which is more like a continuous conversation than an easy way for people to tell you they're running late.

Many of my new, young friends will return to college after our class concludes in August. I'm curious to see if my next group is as diverse in age. ...I hope they are. It only makes our time together more interesting.

Cheers!

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

America, the Beautiful

Happy belated birthday, America! Like most in my country, I spent the weekend surrounded by an obnoxious level of Americana and World Cup viewing parties. (Sports!) 

I also got teased for my time outside of America. "Ya sure you shouldn't be wearing a maple leaf?!" ...Yeah, because how much of our country did you see last year? Oh, you went to Vegas and Orlando? Oh, ok. Well, I saw this much: Wisconsin; Minnesota; South Dakota; Wyoming; Montana; Idaho; Washington; Oregon; California; Nevada; Arizona; New Mexico; Colorado; Nebraska; Iowa; and Illinois.

Badlands National Park

Mt. Rushmore National Memorial

Little Bighorn Battlefield National Monument

Buffalo! 

Livingston, Montana

Hurricane Ridge at Olympic National Park

Tillamook State Forest, Oregon 

Mt. Shasta, California

Golden Gate Bridge, San Francisco

I drove over it!


Maria & I - Family Visit in San Francisco

Colorado Highway

I have an excessive amount of pictures - it was difficult to choose. The point is that our country is vast, varied, and very drive-able. As beautiful as our patchwork quilt is from a 747 flying at 30,000 feet, there's nothing like the experience of traversing it yourself. 

Go explore.

Thursday, July 2, 2015

My Own 'Second City'

There are two schools of thought on the origin of my hometown's most well-known moniker, "The Second City." One belief is that a New York Times reporter coined the phrase while insulting Chicago, labeling it second-class after New York City. This is entirely possible. I mean, have you met New Yorker's? 

I subscribe to the other version of history, which attributes the nickname to the The Great Fire of 1871.  Upon the fire's ashes, Chicagoan's rebuilt an even bigger and better version of their city, earning it the nickname "The Second City." Meaning that we are not the second city-of-the-U.S., we are the second City-of-Chicago. ...Chicago 2.0. ... Chicago the sequel.

One of the most well-known parts of our city is "The Second City" improv company. I started class here last Sunday and half-way through our lesson the instructor led us through a form of group meditation. "In this room," he said, "is infinite space and infinite possibility. This is a beginning."

A great thing to say to any performer, but it resonated deeply with me. This past year of my life has been about change. Here I was, trying to tread a new path in my home town, feeling out of place as the oldest person in my class, and wrestling with balancing this new interest with the life I was expected to 'restart' now that I'd returned to Chicago.

His words were instantly stunning and relaxing. They gave me permission to let go of the pressure I'd been placing on myself. I didn't need to lead a double life - I could wipe the slate clean. I may be in the same town, but I didn't have to be the same person.

So like my home town, I'm brushing away the ashes and building anew. ...I'm just glad it didn't take an actual fire for me to get there.


My Sunday Afternoons